کندوکاوی در تجربه زیسته زنان شهر کرمانشاه از بی‌ثباتی زندگی زناشویی

نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

1 دکتری جامعه شناسی دانشگاه رازی، کرمانشاه، ایران

2 استادیار گروه مشاوره دانشگاه رازی ، کرمانشاه، ایران

چکیده

گزارش‌های رسمی نشان می‌دهد که ساختار ازدواج درخطر نرخ بالای بی‌ثباتی و طلاق است. هدف این پژوهش تبیین تجربه زیسته زنان شهر کرمانشاه از بی‌ثباتی زندگی زناشویی است. برای انجام دادن این پژوهش از روش کیفی پدیدارشناسی استفاده‌شده است. تکنیک مصاحبه عمیق برای جمع‌آوری داده‌ها بکار گرفته شد در این پژوهش با 20 نفر از زنان کرمانشاه که به‌صورت هدفمند انتخاب‌شده بودند مصاحبه شد. برای تحلیل داده‌ها با توجه به ویژگی‌های این پژوهش از روش هفت مرحله‌ای کلایزی استفاده شد. از تحلیل داده‌ها، سه مقوله اصلیتسهیل‌گرهای بی‌ثباتی زندگی زناشویی (با زیر مقوله‌های فرعی اعتیاد، انتظارات نامعقول، رابطه خارج از عرف با جنس مخالف، نابرابری جنسیتی و بیکاری) تجربه احساسی (با زیر مقوله‌های فرعی احساس شکست، احساس تنهایی، احساس رهایی و احساس ناامیدی) و روابط اجتماعی درهم‌ شکسته (با مقوله‌های فرعی کاهش اعتبار اجتماعی، تحقیر توسط دیگران، عدم پذیرش توسط دوستان و انگ‌های منفی) به دست آمد. در نتیجه‌گیری کلی می‌توان گفت بی‌ثباتی به‌عنوان یک معضل اجتماعی، کل جامعه را تحت تأثیر قرار می‌دهد. برنامه‌های اقتصادی برای تغییر در ساخت اشتغال، تقویت بنیادهای اخلاقی به‌ویژه اخلاقیات اجتماعی، اصلاح و تنظیم نظام هنجاری متناسب با سطح انتظارات، ترویج فرهنگ مراجعه خانواده‌ها به مراکز مشاوره خانواده در هنگام بروز اختلافات، تهیه برنامه‌های متنوع آموزشی در جهت توانمندسازی جوانان، ارتقای آگاهی خانواده در خصوص حقوق زنان و آموزش شیوه‌های معیار صحیح همسرگزینی باید موردتوجه قرار گیرد.

کلیدواژه‌ها

عنوان مقاله [English]

Explore the Lived Experience of Women in Kermanshah of Marital Instability

نویسندگان [English]

  • dariush ghafari 1
  • mohammad sajad seidi 2
1 PhD in Sociology, Razi University,, Kermanshah, Iran
2 Assistant Professor, Counseling Department, Razi University,, Kermanshah, Iran
چکیده [English]

Official reports show that the structure of marriage is at risk of high rates of instability and divorce. The purpose of this research is to explain the lived experience of Kermanshah women of the instability of married life. The qualitative method of phenomenology was used to conduct this research. In-depth interview technique was used to collect data. In this research, 20 women of Kermanshah who were selected purposefully were interviewed. To analyze the data according to the characteristics of this research, the seven-step Claesian method was used. From the data analysis, the three main categories of facilitators of marital life instability (with the subcategories of addiction, unreasonable expectations, unconventional relationship with the opposite sex, gender inequality and unemployment) emotional experience (with the subcategories of feeling of failure, feeling of loneliness, feeling of liberation and feeling frustration) and broken social relations (with the subcategories of reduced social prestige, humiliation by others, non-acceptance by friends and negative stigmas) were obtained. In general conclusion, it can be said that instability as a social problem affects the whole society. Economic programs for change in employment creation, strengthening of ethical foundations, especially social morals, reforming and regulating the normative system in line with expectations, Promoting the culture of referring families to family counseling centers and in the event of disputes, providing various training programs to empower young people to raise awareness about women's rights, education, family, marriage means a proper criterion should be addressed.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • Instability
  • lived experience
  • women
  • divorce
  • phenomenology

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توسعه اجتماعی
دوره 16، شماره 2 - شماره پیاپی 62
دوره 16، شماره 2، زمستان 1400
اسفند 1400
صفحه 93-118

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